Help Me! Like This Cute Girl! (Problem)

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rook45;2200757; said:
I'll tell you what an old wise man told me. "Use a condom and don't bring any babies around here!".

Uhmm...im not going that way bro...hahahaha im not tryna lose my virginity now...;)
 
so should the best route for me for the sake of fish keeping and me staying in the hobby...Be friends with her only? ;) thats not a problem and I can be her friend if thats what you guys think i should do thats best for me :D besides you guys are the adults and you had your fun before when you were young :grinno: lol
 
catfishlover106;2200878; said:
so should the best route for me for the sake of fish keeping and me staying in the hobby...Be friends with her only? ;) thats not a problem and I can be her friend if thats what you guys think i should do thats best for me :D besides you guys are the adults and you had your fun before when you were young :grinno: lol

You're thinking about it too much. Get off this thread, and don't look at it again. Don't think about her, as hard as it is. Don't think about what you're going to say, what you're going to do, how you're going to act. The best way to make your best impression on a girl is for the meeting to be a total surprise, so you have no idea it's coming. GO TO BED! (or look at your fish if it's too early there lol) :D
 
just remember if it works out,she will be dumping you when she turns 25,lol.Have fun man.Not alot of ppl stay with highschool girlfreinds and between now and your 20s is a big time for you to learn all your stuff about relationships.Im 33 and still learning stuff,well more like still going through stuff but it still can suck.You will have heart ache,good times,great times,angry times,just remember thats all normal.So know that in 10 years you will look back and think damn,I was sure over thinking this at an age where I should have just been doing my schoolwork and enjoying growing up.Im a little scared because Im 33 now and dont want to wait till Im almost 40 to have a kid.Dont make a baby dude.I played with fire back in the day but never lit the oven.Be safe.Good luck.Your too young to over think it but do enjoy the excitement.You never know,I do meet ppl time to time that are highschool sweethearts so who knows.In the first part of my post I want to clear something up,you always are learning about how to make better relationships.You do however get the hang of it eventually.Good luck.
 
pdbrady;2200713; said:
Oh to be 15 and "in love" again...... Dude......3 days......14 years old....ex-boyfriend.....ALL BS. You're young, you barely know her, she doesn't have an "ex-boyfriend", she's only 14! She had a childhood sweetheart. You're 15, if you start freaking out now, you're ruined for life. Just tell her you think she's pretty cool, you'd love to hang out with her, and just show her you. Be yourself, nothing else. Don't mold yourself to her likings, don't change. If you as you are isn't good enough, she's not good enough, period. Have fun.

very good advice....
 
There are SO many better things to do when you are 15 then to worry about a girl. Go outside and fish, practice driving/maintaining your car, get a job, play sports, do great in school and I bet if you do all of that and do it well, before you know it, girls will be flocking to you!
 
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