nana07202;5107028; said:I see what your saying but she's really aggresive she pushmy other fish out the tank she even ate one alive i had to take evry one else out until i get a bigger tank
Mine, too. It kicked a Firemouth's a** that it had been with for months, who was bigger than it. Even started whomping on a Convict, when they used to be completely inseperable... I had to remove it from my 125, and stick it in a 60 gallon. Dempseys do NOT play well with others.... If you want to get it a mate, I'd suggest making those the only two in the tank, along with maybe a hardy unobtrusive pleco, like a regular bristlenose.
They're *beautiful* fish, and I'd keep it.. You just need to learn to deal with it's aggression issues.. The issues only get larger, as they do. Personality wise, in the right set up, they're totally awesome, tho. Mine's named "Fluffy".