I'm sorry I've just heard so many Pacu horror stories was worried your JD was about to get ground up. JD's are kinda hard to sex. The females tend to have a thicker concentration of blue sparkles on their face under their eyes like a blue beard and more rounded fins. Males tend to have sparkles more evenly through out and pointed fins. Also body shapes are boxier for males- usually. These traits can be found on both sexes. As it matures it "should" start looking more like a Jack or a Jackie. Might not though.