Chillax fellas LOL ...man, i'd be affraid to put both of you in the same tank LOL
Sometimes I have a tendency to ask a lot of questions too even if I've read the info from magazines/websites because it's just so much better to hear it from actual people who have experienced it first hand (like MFK members). There are times also when I would ask the same question over and over again because perhaps I'm hoping I would hear the answer I like. e.g.
"can i put this type of fish with that type of fish"...I've always wanted to put a frontosa in my mbuna tank 55g and I remember I kept asking different sites or LFS if I could...until someone tells me "
yes, I've done it and there's no problems at all" etc...no luck so far LOL...I went and got a fish that I thought was a frontosa and ended up being a tetr-----somethin. almost identical. so i guess that's a sign that i really shouldn't put a frontosa in my mbuna tank.
But anyway, let's continue to enjoy the site and continue to learn from each other and be patient with one another especially with members new to the hobby. I know it's an African Cichlids section but let's all relax and be like neon tetras LOL and work together as a peaceful community

Otherwise, y'all are gonna need some stress coat soon. Peace Love and Peacocks LOL I dunno. I'm at work and I'm bored fellas.
you said it all... ive done a lot of reading but i still cant resist to ask the person who had already tried or experienced it... so for me read then ask the well experience aquarist then ask ask ask ask hehehe...