I added some bleeding heats as dithers, and went out and bought some salts. She's still partially afraid of him and will cower when he comes by but for the most part she's out. Will post some pics soon.
nooo shes back hiding again sorry if im overreacting So the lights are off, the salts are in and the bleeding hearts are in. Here are the pictures as promised and sorry for the pic quality im getting a new camera soon
here they are together(male in front and female hiding behind the plant)
here is the evil male
these are the tetras