How considerate should we be when we choose a screen name... and in general?

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Should this name be removed?


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koltsixx koltsixx I'll try to cover the apparent disconnect, bro.

KS: As I stated before it is against the TOS to have an avatar, logo or screen name that is offensive. The same as it is with posts. However just as with posts everything is subject to those interpreting it.

TBTB: Agreed. I said the same thing, or so I think:

[2] ... I hold an opinion that if an avatar or a screen name CAN be more or less readily interpreted as being against the aforementioned societal rules, TOS, and T&C, the member should be asked to change it / edit it.

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KS: Now you have created a public thread where you polled the membership. And despite seeing that both religious and non religious members don't necessarily interpret the name in question or Logo the same as you. You still view the Logo and username as violating TOS and that MFK is hypocritical.

TBTB: Yes (in short, see below for clarification). Is it wrong to have an opinion that doesn't agree with the majority? I am not shoving my opinion down anyone's throat. Imposition was not my intent. My purpose was to gain clarity. Everyone can stay with their views and on their own mole hill :)

KS: So your stand is that if one person interprets anything posted as offensive and MFK doesn't delete and punish the poster then MFK is not following it's own rules.

TBTB: We can't lump the handle case and the logo case together here. In case of the logo, yes. In case of the handle, no I don't think MFK is not following its own rules. I just think MFK rules are too lax. It's my opinion that no one has to listen to. I am grateful I know yours.

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KS: I'm sorry but I don't find that fair. Not just because to expect a whole community to be subject to the whims of any one person at anytime is incongruous but also because it's fallacious to think that any rule is without exception or subject to interpretation.

TBTB: I agree with the entire paragraph. I'm rather unsure why you might have come to the conclusion that I am arguing: (i) that the MFK be at my whim and (ii) that there is no room for interpretation of a rule, logo, avatar, handle, and wordage.

TBTB: (i) I am not petitioning MFK to do something about its logo. We are just talking and clarifying our positions. I expressed mine. You expressed yours. There is nothing official or judicial in my critique of the MFK logo. There is no ultimatum. No black mail. No cursing. No intrigue. No coup planned :) It is but a personal take. We could be unhappy and grumpy about our difference or we can choose to be happy and grateful we have each other to talk to. Let's choose the latter. (ii) Have you not already convinced me and have I not agreed that the handle in question is within the MFK TOS? Furthermore, have I not even offered to change my handle if the MFK staff or community deems it as not following the MFK TOS? Both of these manifest most clearly that I bow to the power of interpretation. No? Why is this still a question?

TBTB: But none of these abolish my right to have my own interpretation and opinion just like we all have our own. That is all it is. If you still see anything bad or at fault with me, by all means, let's continue talking it out. I welcome being helped.
 
You seem to be only one that finds my avatar offensive. Not that it matters if their are others, and ypur certainly entitled to your opinion wether i disagree or not.
I made the suggestion pages ago....since he says your avatar is offensive to some yet no one else has spoken out about it let's do a poll and see just who is actually offended by it.
 
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And Grinch Grinch i have no issues with your opinion but have an issue with hypocrites. thebiggerthebetter thebiggerthebetter is absolutely entitled to his opinion and from what i can tell practices what he preaches.

You on the other hand took notice of a cracked skull and equated it to a violent threat which to me seems like a reach at best. Im thinking its the support for law enforcement thats getting to you. Needless to say your bothered by such things while routinely updating a thread where you depict your bichirs as a gang and though meant to be commical reference them as mobsters while performing immaginary violent acts.

So why is that not offensive but my avatar is ? Hypocrisy maybe

Clearly someone who can make up stories of their fish committing crimes wouldnt be upset by an image with a fractured skull....must be the blue stripe then

https://www.monsterfishkeepers.com/forums/threads/the-bichir-gang-chronicles.682976/

At op sorry for the continued detail.

I'm not sure whether you are intentionally distracting from the issue, don't understand the issue, or simply don't understand my point... in any case, you've missed it. I'm only mildly offended by your choice in avatar. Others are far more offended by it.

Are you offended by my significant other's names for her fish, that I would dare invent a creative back-story for them as a way to share the names, or that I interpret your avatar in a way that is different than you intended?

Crying "hypocrisy!!" in this case is a pretty big stretch. And I know I said I'd leave you alone since you're taking all of this personally, but since you're making accusations now, I'll give you some food for thought. You like crime movies... isn't that hypocrisy given that you are a crime fighter in real life? The bad guys often get away in those movies. What does that say about you as a law enforcement officer? Of course, it says nothing about you as a law enforcement officer, it only means you like a good crime flick. But it's "hypocrisy" by your definition.
 
40 pages, 400 posts and nearly a month later and still no-one has helped Cheesez identify his goonch SMH
Not even in his thread?.....has the big cheese even been posting lately?
 
I made the suggestion pages ago....since he says your avatar is offensive to some yet no one else has spoken out about it let's do a poll and see just who is actually offended by it.
Will do.
I'm not sure whether you are intentionally distracting from the issue, don't understand the issue, or simply don't understand my point... in any case, you've missed it. I'm only mildly offended by your choice in avatar. Others are far more offended by it.

Are you offended by my significant other's names for her fish, that I would dare invent a creative back-story for them as a way to share the names, or that I interpret your avatar in a way that is different than you intended?

Crying "hypocrisy!!" in this case is a pretty big stretch. And I know I said I'd leave you alone since you're taking all of this personally, but since you're making accusations now, I'll give you some food for thought. You like crime movies... isn't that hypocrisy given that you are a crime fighter in real life? The bad guys often get away in those movies. What does that say about you as a law enforcement officer? Of course, it says nothing about you as a law enforcement officer, it only means you like a good crime flick. But it's "hypocrisy" by your definition.
But i dont find those movies offensive, i find them entertaining just as much as the people i was responsible for on the job. Also i dont judge said people they got caught not my place to judge the actions but only the character of the individual while in my custody.

You said you were offended by an imaginary threat of violence but have a thread going about a gang of fish that commit crimes...that is hysterical pal.
 
That image gives me an idea for a tee shirt.I'm fairly certain it would offend some people in some parts of this city if they even knew what it meant.....but most of those would be the sorts of people who hold a low opinion of law enforcement in the first place.
 
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Not even in his thread?.....has the big cheese even been posting lately?

Not sure about his activity. In post #1 here there is a link to his ID thread. Everyone of us clicked on the link to see his name, but of the hundreds of viewers, no one has taken the time to help him.
 
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