How do you tell someone about a bad habit

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just my opinion but I find it weird that in a serious relationship you can't just tell the other person about a habit like that and them not being able to be understanding and try to change. it shouldn't be a big deal for them to do that for you. kind of a red flag if you ask me
 
SumoNinja said:
just my opinion but I find it weird that in a serious relationship you can't just tell the other person about a habit like that and them not being able to be understanding and try to change. it shouldn't be a big deal for them to do that for you. kind of a red flag if you ask me
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I would tend to agree.
 
Assburger guys. Bad southpark reference but are you taking that into consideration with the last 2 comments? I had the same opinion originally but with that info i changed my mind


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ballinouttacntrol said:
Assburger guys. Bad southpark reference but are you taking that into consideration with the last 2 comments? I had the same opinion originally but with that info i changed my mind


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I understand her fine. But was talking about why the guy can't be more understanding over a thing like that and for anybody should be a red flag of potential issues to come, aspergers or not

I know she struggles with things we may not but that's not gonna stop me from looking out and giving her my honest input with best intentions behind them
 
No no, I'm with the OP. We are talking the partner being super ultra hyper oversensitive.
 
If I was sitting at the table eating with my man & he was eating like that all the time, not sure if I could control my automatic gag reflex.
Maybe that'd cure him.
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SumoNinja said:
just my opinion but I find it weird that in a serious relationship you can't just tell the other person about a habit like that and them not being
able to be understanding and try to change. it shouldn't be a big deal for them to do that for you. kind of a red flag if you ask me
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Just read this thread for the first time today. I can't believe how many pages there are of people who'd pussyfoot around an issue like this. This would be a deal breaker for me.
 
UNLESS,,, it's a cultural thing. I always get annoyed when I see someone pause with a mouthful of food in my Chinese movies. That's different.
 
I love Asian movies, the IP movies, Red cliff, 13 samurai and such, but there eating habits can really bug me.
 
I cant stand people like that myself the line I always use is does it taste good cause it doesnt sound good

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