Wow… there has been some real half thought out or at least explained opinions shared here…
 
And a little nonsense to throw you off even further…
 
 
A detail about Oscars that is often overlooked… Oscars are not schooling fish. Baby Cichlids stick together for the same reason tetras and the like school. But once they mature and have motives/interests of adult fish (primarily spawning) all of that changes. Keep in mind changes in behavior between children and adults is very common in many (if not most) species of animals…
 
 
A “pair” of Oscars means a male and a female that have proven to get along and (at least attempt to) spawn…
 
Assuming that a male and female will be a pair is not wise… assuming 4 random Oscars will grow up to be 2 pairs is irrational…
 
Two pairs might get along in a 6’ 125 gal tank… you would have to decorate the tank logically to create distinct breaks in territory and break lines of sight between nests… A cave on each side with the opening not facing the middle and a large piece of driftwood and/or pile of rocks would be a way to do this…
 
 
4 females might get along… but is more of a risk than I would take… 3 females would have no better chances, but would allow for a few tank mates which may cause a beneficial distraction… 2 females would allow for an extra tank mate or two that would allow additional beneficial distraction…
 
 
4 males is a battle royal waiting to happen… 3 males is no better, even with a tank mate or two, 2 males is just as likely to turn into a battle, overburdening the tanks water quality with tank mates may help a little (a little).
 
 
In the end, Oscars are not schooling fish and forcing them to live in close proximity with one another (mate not included) is asking them to live against their natural situations… a lot more so than living in a glass box with tank mates of differing species…
 
 
I tried to turn a 6’ round 300 gal Rubbermaid into an “Oscar Pond” with 2 different groups of Oscars… Each time starting with 6~8 juvi Oscars… one time I ended up with a pair, the other time I ended up with a pair and a male that hid constantly (the second time for some reason the huge female mated with the weaker male)…
 
I love Oscars and would love to have a tank slam full of them… and having tried to have such a tank… I speak from the perspective of an experienced Oscar lover… You will have the highest potential of a tank you are happy with by having one beautiful large Oscar and a handful of tank mates of other species.