There are also those who are slow to love, have been in love and found it good, but are not in love now. I think that the definition of love differs for each of us but the major component of love is trust.fsc46 said:I cannot believe how many people were burned in a relationship! We clearly have 2 groups here:
1) Those who have just been burnt. (Or in their last relationship)
2) Those who are in love right now. (Dating or married)
I think you can date someone for years and love them but not be in love.
I also feel that you can be in love with someone who isn't treating you the way you should be treated.
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As for love being occasionaly painful and you feeling more, true, but life without feeling is a waste of time. All lives contain pain and all actions entail risk.
Take your chances, living without love becomes very lonely after awhile.