how should a girl deal with sleazy men?

[swede]

take some sambo classes or as they say in russian самбо

 

[Diskboy12]

Just carry like bug spray or some form of spray liquid that burns the eyes, or get a letter opener and sharpen the blade, that's what my mom did. Haha

 

[MadRussian79]

take some sambo classes or as they say in russian самбо

Unless you want to learn a martial art I'd take a basic self defense class. Sambo is not for the faint hearted. However if you do learn this I won't matter how big, mean or armed the guy is, he's done. After that the idea of looking at a women will make him cry for vicodin.

BTW: How did you get the cyrillic to show?

 

[Red Devil]

Just carry like bug spray or some form of spray liquid that burns the eyes, or get a letter opener and sharpen the blade, that's what my mom did. Haha

smart mom

 

[Red Devil]

Yesterday I was on the train and going back home. It wasn't late at night and I wasn't dressed up in a provocative way. Then this guy comes up to me and says hi...I know he is about to chat me up from the way he is watching me so I'm like hi then I walk away. THEN he starts to follow me!!!!!! I start to panic so I go and sit further down in the carriage inside the train and he follows me again so I look up at him and I say "can I help you?" then he says "can i have your number" and i say "im sorry but i'm already taken" but he doesnt leave me alone . I get off the train and start going back to my place...but an hour and a half later he is still following me around!!!!! I'm like omg he is going to attack me or something why is he following meeeeeeeeeeee so I go into the police station and sit down. Then this cute looking policeman drives me home

But that was so scary seriously I always get sleazy men looking at me but this guy just went overboard!!! Imagine you're on your own and some guy hits on you then won't stop following you for two hours we aren't allowed guns here haha but is there any other way I could deal with this because I know there is always a chance it can happen again. So what makes a guy back off from a woman?

i think you did everything right... walked into the police station and reported it... and get some lessons in self defense and try to always be where there are people around and if at night try and go places with another person instead of alone... other then that just use common sense as you did... that helps more then anything in those sticky situations..

 

[princess]

not smart, those things are classed as weapons in UK, if a guy doesn't touch you and you do that to him your gonna be in big trouble. how about a rape alarm?

 

[Red Devil]

not smart, those things are classed as weapons in UK, if a guy doesn't touch you and you do that to him your gonna be in big trouble. how about a rape alarm?

i would rather be in a little trouble then be in danger... ask questions later... if the situation looks like your in trouble then you use your gut instincts...

 

[princess]

lol if you get caught with a sharp object? I always take spray that contains alcohol just an every day perfume but i would never mix up my own potion to use.

 

[ozz465]

oh god....dont tempt me to get a tazer...lol if they were legal ud find half naked men evrywhere dazed and confused

Sounds like a taze might be worth it


But damm those things hurt .

 

[Neervana]

HA I KNEW IT!!!!!!!!! i just didnt wanna bring it up. he didnt give you a "ride" for no reason. so what made the stalker sleazy and not the policeman? the uniform?

hmmm let's see...his cute smile and amazing offer to rescue a damsel in distress uniform helped too