The female is in the pot. Pic one is the male. I think some of you guys have it reversed.
There are different HRP in the hobby. It has been stated that the different fish in each major river system look different, so without knowing the lineage of your fish, you'll never truly know. Cryptoheros species will interbreed in an aquarium but I don't believe they are known to interbreed in the wild.
Raise some fry and see if they look the same, or if they have different body traits and color.