hey bud,my girlfreind smoked cigs for 10 years,i always smoked cigars,quite the conisuer but when i met her 3 yearsago i started smoking cigs with her due to the convenience.They dont relax me,just the oposite witch i hate but for some reason i goy hooked on the feeling of it going in the lungs and throat.Also i think its kind of a rebeliouse thing or something.Anyway,we both un knowingly quit on the same day and it was going great until i started freaking out because i dont do well knowing i can NEVER do something again so i said screw it and started having one every few days or so.Now i might have 10 in a weekend and then none for a week.Problem is if i go to a concert or out of town long trip or such i want them even more.So now its just on occasion.My girl though whent through all kinds of withdrawls.She was realy sick feeling.She will cheat now and then but her pack a day habbit is gone and she hase not bought a pack in months.In spring i can enjoy a cigar again time to time so i think the cigs will die.Good luck man,i know its hard.Just be happy with your new lifestyle.You will start to feel great,i promise.