fanlie you got both girls.
ogrim, girls aren't agressive, they just setup dominance over night then they stick to the pecking order (however just like human some females are more agressive then others). i have not seen any of my females get too agressive.
males on the other hand will set very strong dominance and if size is similar then they will fight. i wouldn't have a small tank with just 2 males. however more than 2 is ok but make sure they have a home furthest away from each other. (even for breeders)
there is no sexual dominace from my observation, bigger the fish more respect it gets (smaller ones will clear the path of the bigger ones and if not, the bigger one will give the smaller one a light snapping and smaller one will backaway and bigger one continues on with whatever it was doing.
regarding high ph etc. well from my experiences, I am a strong believers in getting the fish to adapted to MY WATER CONDITION and I haven't found any fish that didn't. In saying this, my water condition should be great. massive overfilter with high quality debary uv etc. one other thing, I don't believe in frequent water change as long as water is clean. i might do it 3-4 times a year.

(btw the breeders tank did have high ph as it used to house black occies. then i added these guys and did water change few times without adding any buffers so it should be low ph (i have no idea as care factor is zero! lol hmm come to think of it, dropping ph gradually could have started their breeding trigger??? as my other pair isn't doing anything but this tank hasn't got any places to breed (can't be bothered setting it up! lol)
i grew zebra plecos, knifes, elephant nose etc which are known on the net as soft water/ low ph.... could be but it's not absolute.
anyway some more pics. temps got to 30c today. some eggs which were good in the morning is cooked! lol
might have to come up with a way to lower temp. some eggs are still lookin good.