I was cheated on

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fishfanatic80

fishfanatic80

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Feb 7, 2011
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I found out my girlfriend of 4 years cheated on me. Idk what to do im just such a mess. Its my first love im only 19 but its like so hard to move on. Im heartbroken and to be honest i just feel like i want to die. I lost my best friend in the world. To top it off the guy she cheated with slashed my tire because she regretted doing it with him and stopped talking to him so he got mad and slashed my tire. Im sorry i just needed to vent i feel ashamed of myself and im having a total breakdown. Am i really that bad a guy? did i really mess up on my judgement for that long with staying with her? I dont know where things went wrong but they went horribly wrong. What can i do to get over this, i just am in a horrible part of my life right now. Can anyone share experience on what they did to get happy over a broke up or something im lost.
 
get over her and move on. go to the LFS then straight to the LOcal strip club and make it rain feeder goldfish.
 
Sleep with her best friend. Or sister. Or mom. That will teach her.
 
haha you guys are crazy but yeah i dont know guys im in such a slum and i dont think a new fish will do it for me. I dont want to try and date again because ill feel bad. I dont want to make some girl a rebound and then just break up with her because then shell feel my pain and its so hard to deal with. I feel like the only way i can express how i feel is through here im too ashamed to talk to someone in person about it. I never want to see or hear from this girl again
 
Move on ..... your 19 and there are many other fish in the sea. As James Earl Jones told Eddie Murphy in Coming to America "Go sow your royal oats." In other words go out and enjoy being 19 and single, there will be other heartbreaks in your life. Trust Me
 
It sucks, but go out and meet someone new. Your only 19 years old. Dating again is not going to break someone else heart, from that comment I can tell you have never been on the dating scene. You can easily go out on dates and have a great time without breaking someones heart. Before I met my wife I had gotten out of a long term relationship that went bad. I dated around for a while and then met my wife. Do not hurry to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you have plenty of time. Go out and date.
 
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