I was cheated on

[ballinouttacntrol]

wait wait wait, hold up, some dude smashed YOUR girlfriend and then slashed YOUR tires? WTF did you do? forget about her, my beef is with your ex best friend. your judgement was apparently way off on who your homies should be. seriously wtf


ps, lep has the gist of it right, relationships can be rebuilt after cheating. especially considering the girl is actually showing some guilt, most people don't. it's not for everyone but we shouldn't pretend it's never happened either. just sleep with her mom or sister or best friend first so you both have a clean slate

 

[SumoNinja]

^ he's not saying his best friend and the ex hooked up, he's saying that his ex was his best friend and now that's over.

anyways, i know people who have stayed togerther after one was unfaithful, so yea, it can work, but it aint' for everyone

i have a couple of brothers that cheated on their wives, not during the marriage, before they got married. now they're married with no issues

btw, i'm also wondering if ts did anything about his tires being slashed. did he just let it go or at least report it or something?

 

[Guapote]

Dude, you are too young to have been locked down for the past 4 years.

Put it this way. There are 3 times as many women as there are men on this earth. You need to take this in stride and move on; even if it is with her. Eitherway, no woman wants an emotional man. I'm not saying that you need to be cold and act as if it doens't bother you. I am saying that you need to be rational about this.

Remove yourself from the emotional aspect of the situation and ask yourself if you think she really loves you.

Would you cheat on her? If not, why? If SO, why?

Cheating while in a TRUE committed relationship is not easy unless there are other underlying issues.

Just my .02