I was cheated on

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I say just give yourself time to get over her. It may take awhile, but spend time focusing on yourself, maybe travel? or take up a new hobby? or like others have suggested, get a new fish or tank. Just do something positive to take your mind off of the whole situation. You will find a new (and better) girl in the future when you least expect it.

I do NOT agree with the advice most of the guys on here have given....
such as getting revenge on the guy who slashed your tires, or going out and sleeping with random girls while drunk.
 
So you would get thrown in jail for assault and or whatever else over it? so that they can laugh at you when you pay fines and are locked in jail and they go screw around more... o_O
 
dude, life sucks, dont let one event in your life control you. Ive been there... had a g.f of 3 years cheat on me when i was 18... sucked.. best thing i did was hang out with my friends... and have a good time and enjoy the people that arnt stabbing you in the back... try not to think about it because its only going to upset you more... but as they say... time heals all (which i totally thought was a bs statement when i heard it but indeed it is true....) also dont FB stalk her and stuff.. jsut makes it worse.. just put her outa ur mind/life until you feel ready to deal with it.... but also.. since i dont know the whole story... depending on the situation id also suggest try talking to her if shes willing.. otherwise move on... theres like 10 girls to every guy in your life you've got many of chances...
 
Wow luv all the cynics!! Makes me all giddy inside

Ps break that dudes face. No reason for the tire
 
You'll never be able to trust her again, so I wouldn't try and stay with her. It'll be hard but only for a short time. Its not too hard to find another person to spend time with, go out with the guys a few times a week.
 
go get a happy ending and send her the pic
 
if you work and have a car, take some time off and take a roadtrip somewhere new and unexplored. I had a breakup at 19 and thats exactly what I did, Make it a point to stop every hour wherever I was and explore on foot. you'll find that diving into new experiences and environments really helps you let go of the past and look into the future, the unknown. I hope you feel better, start talking to new women, get to know then even if you don't date them, start a new high quality diet, go shopping for a new outdoor hobby, and please get a Fake ID!
 
Lepisosteus platyrhincus said:
First, if u wanted u could make it work. She regretted it u say. Second ur not in a serious relationship. Could be worse
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Forgive her and take her back? Worst advice in this thread, and there's been a lot of bad advice in here. You need to have some self-respect. Forget about her, move on, and enjoy life.
 
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