Sounds like your getting opinions from people who dont even have a large tank or have not looked at said fish in a large system. A large arowana yes will take up some room but not half the tank at all. The stingray as well is not going to require half the tank.
My personal opinion is that those type of fish you selected will have a hard time getting along together and your likely to get some loss overtime. During my time and changing many fish in my system I have learned what does and does not work. This is a lesson you will have to learn as well. The helpful part is to have another tank you can move some fish into when they do not work out with the others. But picking the best choices at start is best. Like for example the rays will require the whole bottom of the tank so plan no other bottom fish.
Also your filtration will have a hard time keeping up with a system(well probably just wont do well at all really) that large your going to need some serious flow to keep the water moving. Take a look at my thread below.
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Thank You very much and yes I will read your post, hope it helps