There were plenty of "dithers" when she was 1st introduced it had no bearing on there dominance issues, they weren't interested. The violence has stopped. The male beat the crap out of her and she has been nothing but submissive for the past 3-4 weeks. Also she's almost 100% healed up and both seem most interested in eating, they'd give full grown oscars a run for their money, it's their current favorite pasttime.