Ive been broken...

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Plec123

Plec123

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I know it seems like lots of people come to the lounge to complain nowadays, so thanks for reading if you decide to continue on...

I met this girl my freshman year (highschool), and im a junior... Last May i realized i had a huge crush on her, and i had fallen in love by like september. I asked her out in november, and she became my girlfriend on december 11th. We have the same birthday, im 2 minutes older than her.
The next 3 months were the happiest of my life. I was with a perfect, hot girl that i was head over heels for, and she was the happiest she'd ever been. she was sweet and cute and loved being with me...

a couple weeks ago, she said she was gonna go visit a college and that got me thinking too far into the future and i started worrying about if i would lose her to separation because of college. Somewhere in there, she basically lost her feelings for me that kept us in a relationship.

Today (now its technically yesterday), the first girl i ever loved broke up with me. She just wants to be friends, but I still love her and she could never even tell me she loved me for reasons im not gonna go into. So yeah. I've been broken.. thanks for reading...
 
Aw man that sucks =/ If you know you won't be able to keep your feelings from her just tell her you can't be friends. And remember, kindness kills, so don't get upset with her just let her go.
 
Im sorry bud I know how you feel trust me Im sure alot of us do but I bet I no even more, heres my story on how I no.

I dated a girl for a year on and off, She broke up with her bf at the time to go out with me and she cheated on me 3 times that I know of with him. I was so in love I didnt care I kept taking her back, I jumped through hoops for her and I would of jumped infront of a train in a second to save her. Finally I got fed up with the heartbroke and tears of her constantly leaving me crying for breaking up with me becuz she wanted her other ex back. I cried so much I couldnt cry anymore, so I got back at her. I started talking to brittani my gf now of almost 7 months, I was talking to her for about 3-4 weeks while my ex was still trying to get with me. I kept making my ex try harder and harder untill one night she stopped by after work and I gave her the boot if felt so good. During the times we were broken up we stayed friends which makes it harder especially if she starts talking to other guys and starts wanting to go out with someone else. If you want advice I'd say stay away from her and it will save you even more sorrow, theres another girl out there for you. and If I wouldnt have done what I did with my ex, and didnt go out with brittani Id still be feeling the way I was when I was dating my ex like a piece of used up trash. Ive never been happier than I am now, and I personally think Ill marry Brittani and be with her till I die and she feels the same way. just hang in there you'll find someone I promise, and if you dont believe me I understand I didnt believe anyone else that was telling me either...

Oh BTW my best friend at the time and his gf told me everyday to break up with my ex and they told me I was stupid of staying with her so once I finally did they werent happy, accept for my ex bestfriend who is now doing stuff with my ex while still dating his gf of almost 4 years. thats my story and I cant wait to forget it.
 
wow, this seems strangely familiar. I was dating a girl senior year of high school and we ended up breaking up beginning of sophomore year of college, and we had the same birthday too! except and i was like 4 hours older, lol. But anyways, i was pretty broken up one we broke up and actually didn't eat anything for an entire week, not a good thing. I feel for ya brotha. keep your head up, you're still young and trust me, there will be many more girls in the future, heck, you have all four years of college left.

In short, keep your head up, if things are meant to be they will work out. Try to keep her as a close friend (i'm still very close friends with most of my exs) it's better to only lose a gf instead of a gf AND a friend. and, a very fitting saying for this site, there are plenty more fish in the sea!
 
It sucks man...sorry to her the news....but life goes on....on to the next one...
 
this is now a post your sad breakups thread Xd
 
Im going to assume that you are 16 or 17... Dont sweat it dude. Theres plenty of other ladies in the world and you are honestly too young to be worrying about these things.
 
Specialk314;4998724; said:
wow, this seems strangely familiar. I was dating a girl senior year of high school and we ended up breaking up beginning of sophomore year of college, and we had the same birthday too! except and i was like 4 hours older, lol. But anyways, i was pretty broken up one we broke up and actually didn't eat anything for an entire week, not a good thing. I feel for ya brotha. keep your head up, you're still young and trust me, there will be many more girls in the future, heck, you have all for years of college left.

In short, keep your head up, if things are meant to be they will work out. Try to keep her as a close friend (i'm still very close friends with most of my exs) it's better to only lose a gf instead of a gf AND a friend. and, a very fitting saying for this site, there are plenty more fish in the sea!
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College girls....:drool:
 
very sad to read.. it is so hard to go from blissfully happy to this measure of sad..the only thing that can help...and it will in the long run is time... you will need to stay extra busy and believe me sooner or later there will be another girl you will feel this way about...
 
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