Ive been broken...

[Plec123]

These things happen. All part of growing up. Youre a teenager. It may not seem like it now, or for awhile but eventually you will be glad this happened. Sorry if my post is not touchy feely but the world is not gull of rainbows and unicorns. Trials such as these build our character and establish the kind of man you are going to be. Dont fail yourself. Dont do anything stupid and you dont necessarily have to take anyones advice - not even mine. Stay true to yourself. Eventually everything else will fall in place.

yeah i was thinking about that too.. all this advice will come together and help me out, and i was talking to my 2 best friends yesterday and they know i'll be better eventually. its just time that i need.

Treat em all like crap and you'll never have this problem again..

No.

 

[Ash]

Sounds like you got a good train of thought going on the situation.

You still have a long ways to go and plenty of time. I have been on both ends of relationships where I was broken up with and left broken and where I was the dumper and it still sucks b/c you don't want to hurt someone. All these experience will only help you in the future. Time will heal, the best thing to do now and is hangout with your guy friends, chill out and keep busy. Love has many different forms and you will love more than once and eventually you will find the "one" for you. For now just try to enjoy life and things will work themselves out. =]

 

[chloe]

i think everyones been there at some point, iv been there a few times lol its hard but u just have to move on, i know that sounds insensitive, i dont mean it to.
but if u dwell it will just make it worse. keep urself busy so u dont think about her and soon u wont remember.
i allow myself 3 days of intense crying (wearing their shirt so the snot goes over it lol) and dwelling in my house, then thats it, get up and go, iv done my bit.
although the last one im still really good friends with and luckily they quit their job so i didnt have to give the shirt back lol x


(the shirt did get washed btw)

 

[Bottomfeeder]

That sucks Jeff, sorry to hear.

Here is my philosophy: if she says "just friends", or hasn't said it yet but you think she's gonna, take the offer and be friends. You never know, she could become your best friend ever. And it could lead into stuff down the road. Just remember you got a lot ahead of ya and there are more tires in the sea.

 

[DavidW]

believe in yourself.

 

[Plec123]

That sucks Jeff, sorry to hear.

Here is my philosophy: if she says "just friends", or hasn't said it yet but you think she's gonna, take the offer and be friends. You never know, she could become your best friend ever. And it could lead into stuff down the road. Just remember you got a lot ahead of ya and there are more tires in the sea.

yeah we were really good friends before and we still will be, like i said she cares about me and she didnt wanna hurt me but it had to be done. we'll still be good friends.

i think everyones been there at some point, iv been there a few times lol its hard but u just have to move on, i know that sounds insensitive, i dont mean it to.
but if u dwell it will just make it worse. keep urself busy so u dont think about her and soon u wont remember.
i allow myself 3 days of intense crying (wearing their shirt so the snot goes over it lol) and dwelling in my house, then thats it, get up and go, iv done my bit.
although the last one im still really good friends with and luckily they quit their job so i didnt have to give the shirt back lol x


(the shirt did get washed btw)

yeah im actually typing a paper right now so thats got me pretty busy.. i'll be better soon i think because like i said we were good friends before and we'll stay friends.

Sounds like you got a good train of thought going on the situation.

You still have a long ways to go and plenty of time. I have been on both ends of relationships where I was broken up with and left broken and where I was the dumper and it still sucks b/c you don't want to hurt someone. All these experience will only help you in the future. Time will heal, the best thing to do now and is hangout with your guy friends, chill out and keep busy. Love has many different forms and you will love more than once and eventually you will find the "one" for you. For now just try to enjoy life and things will work themselves out. =]

i hung out with one of my guy friends yesterday haha it helped some, he's friends with the girl and we both know she's nice. i think i'll be alright by next weekend, probably before then since we're still friends and theres no hard feelings between us.

 

[Bottomfeeder]

To be honest, IMO good friend > girlfriend any day. Friendships weather much harsher storms than relationships do good to know you two will remain friends.