My 8" male jack is a beast, has killed and beat up fish that were bigger than him (jag and RD) He rips apart Pleco's, and I think he may be *** (wanted to kill every female I introduced). But he acts like a puppy to me getting excited when he see's me, even appears to start wagging his tail fast, will eat food right out of my hand, and even spits rocks at the sides to get my attention when hungry (nobody ever believes me on this, until they see it). But I have 2 female that live peacefully in a "community" oddball/cichlid tank.
Edit: Apparently G-A-Y is a curse word on here (***), which I find more offensive than the word itself, not that I'm ***...I'm not, I swear.