sQwiReL;1371798; said:i started off with my jar at about 1.5-2" and i fed him live black worms. its usually easier to feed jars live food and they dont usually take dry food off the bat from my experience. i just fed him black worms until he got to a decent size and then starved him to take dry food.
as for keeping a silver and jar together. chances are not likely, but you shouldnt have a problem right now. jar wont beat anything up. if you really want to do this combo, IMO from my experiences was to keep the jar occupied with tankmates at all times from a young age. then i added my silver after the jar hit the 6-7" mark, but make sure the silver is about 9". after that, the silver and jar have always been together and the jar is almost caught up in size with the silver, only has like 1-1.5" more to go before he catches up to the silver.
i did add 2 silvers when i intially did this, i put in a 9" and a 7" silver, but the 9" silver beat the hell out of the 7"
thanks for the info! i really needed help in this department. what kind of tankmates do you recommend?