I do believe there is a bit of variation of personality among fish, but importantly, there is certainly there is a lot of variation in our interests and therefore in how we perceive a certain fish behavior. When the Wolf, or the Goliath, or the Payara eats a smaller fish... Oh it is normal and expected. But if the Distichodus, Leporinus , or Abramites nips here and there... then it is a jerk. It depends what you want.