I have 2 leporinus (1x10" and 1x8") in my tank and will be adding a 3rd one (8") next week.
I keep them with large SA/CA cichlids, a RTG arowana, a couple of L´s and a flagtail in a 10x4´tank. The 2 leporinus get along fine and aren´t intimidated by most of the cichlids, but I still don´t know what will be the reaction to when the 3rd enters the tank. The RTG doesn´t bother them.
As regards you keeping 3, it may work since you have a good sized tank (220g) but the literature on the species usually says 1 alone or 5+, so there is a risk.
I don´t have experience with exodons to comment on them cohabiting, but the idea I had is that exodons require a species only tank.