2 ppl love each other.They knew in the begening they had some diferences that may bring them down at times but felt they could grow together and bring something new to the 2 broken tables.Hopefully creating one table that would hold them both up in high spirits and one day hav their torn hearts mended together.2 ppl who both have came from long relationships and failed only to meet eachother and feel 100 percent that it was meant to be,though those diferences were still haunting the back of their minds,they also had things about them that they were missing before.2 ppl decided to give it a shot,2 ppl started to really love eachother and at the same time those haunting diferences started biting them and causing the slate to become tainted.2-3 years pass and they have loved and fought,though never violent,fights still can take time to heal.2 ppl still love eachother and have become best friends but at the same time know it may be asking to much to be who each person really wants or needs the other to be for a marrige to ever come.2 ppl spent all day almost beaking up and just cant do it,thinking it may be the right thing,but just cant.It hurts so bad for both of them to stay and not keep walls up.Yet parting is such a heart renching thought.Lots of tears,broken spirits and tired minds.2 ppl feeling quite a diferent type of pain they ever felt from the past long term rides.Keep us in your prayers,and if your not into that,please keep us in your wishes and hearts.Were so tired,feeling crazy,depressed,and if Ive ever felt like a gothic dork,this is it.lol.Thanks for listening.Peace out.Ive been through alot of love things.I know the advice I could give,its just never the same is it.
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I'm sorry man. I truly am.
Take a break. Stop thinking about it. GO ON A DATE. Go have fun again. Stay up late looking at the stars, take her fishing. Just relax. You aren't married (I believe), so don't act like you are. Have fun, focusing on growing. Not growing with her, but growing into the man you want to be. The rest will fall into place.
Take a break. Stop thinking about it. GO ON A DATE. Go have fun again. Stay up late looking at the stars, take her fishing. Just relax. You aren't married (I believe), so don't act like you are. Have fun, focusing on growing. Not growing with her, but growing into the man you want to be. The rest will fall into place.
this is a story i have just gone through aswell bro i hear you 100% but i cant let it get me down,just as we know many fish in the sea
Well, I can't really give advice in this...as it is not my life. It sounds as though you are trying your best (both of you) and are going about it in a very good way. Emotions can wear you down more then anything else in the world. Heartache is the hardest thing to deal with and overcome. In time it will happen, however it is suppose to.
You are in my prayers and my thoughts, may you find the strength you need to pull your self through (both of you).
You are in my prayers and my thoughts, may you find the strength you need to pull your self through (both of you).
I say fight for the relationship. If you still feel that it is worth fighting for and staying in the relationship, do stay. Once you feel that its no longer worth it, its time to bail.
I've been with my GF for 6 years which is longer than most marriages. We've been together since she was 17 and when I was 21. We've had countless fights but the relationship is still worth fighting for and staying in. We're not even living together but our relationship gets better every year if you ask me.
I've been with my GF for 6 years which is longer than most marriages. We've been together since she was 17 and when I was 21. We've had countless fights but the relationship is still worth fighting for and staying in. We're not even living together but our relationship gets better every year if you ask me.
Hey man, Goth isn't dorkish! 
J/k
Any who, Just refresh and renew somethings, and if nothing works out, then I guess you should go back fishing for that girl in the sea, there's one for everyone. you need to ask yourself, would I be happier staying or leaving, once you make your decision, stick with it, and lets all hope it helps. Think, would she be happier if me and her weren't together.
In the end, it'll all boil down to you, whether you're happy, IMO it's not worth it if you miserable and tied and depressed.
That's just my opinion, my two cents.
J/k
Any who, Just refresh and renew somethings, and if nothing works out, then I guess you should go back fishing for that girl in the sea, there's one for everyone. you need to ask yourself, would I be happier staying or leaving, once you make your decision, stick with it, and lets all hope it helps. Think, would she be happier if me and her weren't together.
In the end, it'll all boil down to you, whether you're happy, IMO it's not worth it if you miserable and tied and depressed.
That's just my opinion, my two cents.
I didnt read past the first sentence but go to the boobie bar and get drunk. You will be over it within the week. Its not worth sweating over it.
you need to stop thinking of her and be strong for yourself. its the only way. my stupid ex (whilst he was still with me) went and got engaged to some other girl then didnt have the guts to tell me in person but email me and told me. after being with him for soooo long i felt like crap but i had to pull myself up because no one else is going to do it for you. sorry to sound so cold, but seriously forget about her and go out with your friends and get smashed or something.