Love?

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It took being with my current gf for over 7 years to realize what true love was...

And yes, feelings and the bond can grow ever stronger if you are compatible with each other...

Also for you younger cats, looks don't last forever, niether does doing the dirty... The most important thing imo is finding someone you actually enjoy the company of, and who understands you for better or worst...


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love is real and it takes many different forms

You can love a person but you may not love them in the way you think you do. I think you can love in many different ways. Like you might love an ex but not in the way you would love the person that you marry if that makes any sense.

True loves exist and I think that its an indescribable feeling one can feel overwhelmed by when you find it and its always there (not the I found my first love kind of feeling), I don't believe it fades away but it can grow and change. I honestly don't think though that its a feeling everyone gets to experience. When you do find it, you will definitely know. I don't think anyone could ever really explain it.
 
Hey, thanks guys! I've just been through a really rough patch lately. I appreciate the wisdom and the laughs! It puts things in perspective. My first love died over ten years ago so I've accepted it and it doesn't hurt too much now. The second actually turned out to be *** (after having two kids with him). The third, well, he's what I'm trying to get over and he's had a drug problem. I just don't know how many times I can go through it.

I think I just need to be by myself for a while. I just don't want to lose faith that there is something better out there. Thanks for letting me vent. I needed that more than anything else.
 
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