Put a clay pot and/or a rock or something in the tank that has a good flat surface. Do water changes every other day or so with water that is a few degrees cooler than the tank (25%-50%) Keep your tank around 80-82*F. Also feed them lots of live or frozen food (anything meaty like bloodworms, silversides, krill, nightcrawlers etc. Aside from that, you must have patience! If you need more info, there are hundreds of pages on this site about breeding cichlids, do a search!