marriage vs living together and divorce (rant)

[Ang]

I've been married for 7 years. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss.

My parents are in love still after being married 37 years.

I'm not bragging, I'm just showing you, not all relationships will end up like your mom and dad. You were unfortunate enough to have to go through that horrible time.

Learn from their mistakes.

and not all women are out for blood. My husband brags to everyone that his wife (me) hates Valentine's Day.

I also would not be happy if he bought me a diamond. I would be angry that he spent that much money on such a stupid little rock.


Chin up. I know you went through a lot. But not all women are evil. And marriage isnt at fault for bad relationships.

 

[Ang]

Give me a percentage of the girls that are in it for the money or the love I need to see a percentage.

i think you've made your mind up for now.

Let time go by. Stay away from girls until you mature a little more.

 

[Ash]

^agreed

Just because you run into a bad seed doesnt make us all bad.

That would be like me saying "show me a percentage of guys who are not jerks.."

If I was in the relationship I am in now for money and materialistic objects... I wouldn't still be here I would have left a long time ago. I am in the relationship I am in now b/c I love and care about him.

Not all relationships are doomed to fail, some work and some dont. It sucks when two people don't work out and it ends in a nasty way and they treat eachother with disrespect. Unfortunetly it happens. I understand that it is going to be or was a really rough time and you just have to try deal with it. Be there for your Dad, maybe when you are older you can heal your relationship with you mom. That does not mean you have to forgive her but you are still her son and she is still your mom. Things will eventually get better.

 

[thepwner70]

Every girl pretty much hates me at my school they treat me like garbage so does my sister and my mom. I get bunch of garbage that I will never get a girl friend due to the lack of my social skills. For that matter I kinda don't like women that much at all because of that. Plus I have pretty much become atheist because of that cause god really didn't answer any of my prayers thats all I have to say.

 

[Citrinellus]

^ Just be open minded you'll find the girl who sees you for who you are.

 

[Ash]

I wouldn’t say I have the best social skills and I still got somewhere. I also wouldn’t say my bf is all that sociable either. Social skills help in making friends to help you out in tough times though and are not the worst thing to have, but I wouldn’t say you will never have a gf for that reason alone, it just takes a girl who has understanding and that may not be something you will just find in a day or a week. You just have to give things time. Also don't let people fill you head with things... esp. not if you are going to go around believing them. You make your life and decision and you will just start to believe them and perceive what they tell you as reality when its not necessarily true.

 

[Wulfonce]

My uncle once told me that "loneliness is a small price to pay".