I fall into the 3-5 year category, I am currently getting divorced, but 'technically' I am still married and I know how it is to procrastinate on school stuff and need the interview NOW...so I'll help, you can take it or leave it, up to you....
1. how did you and your spouse meet, what was going through your head
A mutual friend introduced us, and he wanted my sweet tarts (really, the candy, get your mind out of the gutter)
2. what is your favirote thing about this person
His devotion to our family.
3. least favirote thing?
His silence at the end of a day while droning on the tv
4.if you have kids have they made things harder?
Nope, we both love our kids very much, they are the highlights of our lives
5. what do you guys do for fun just you two(school safe answer
)
with two small children, nothing is ever 'just us two' except the not school safe answer
6. does you spouse feel the same way about fish as you do?
not at all, he sees them as money grubbing, stupid animals you can't even pet...
7. how do you make tough descicions together
this is where the 'it's easier to ask forgiveness than ask permission' comes into play, but if we actually make it together it usually turned into an argument and if it was something I felt adamently about I argued til he gave up, or if I didn't, I gave in.
8. who spends more money, why?
me, I pay the bills and do all the shopping, he just works.
9. who pays the bills, and why(math part)
I did cause he is gone 12-13 hours a day at work
10. if your spouse decided to make a large change to your family would you support him or her? why?
it would depend on the change and how it would affect our kids, but usually yes because I trust he has their best intrests at heart as well.
1. how did you and your spouse meet, what was going through your head
A mutual friend introduced us, and he wanted my sweet tarts (really, the candy, get your mind out of the gutter)
2. what is your favirote thing about this person
His devotion to our family.
3. least favirote thing?
His silence at the end of a day while droning on the tv
4.if you have kids have they made things harder?
Nope, we both love our kids very much, they are the highlights of our lives
5. what do you guys do for fun just you two(school safe answer
)with two small children, nothing is ever 'just us two' except the not school safe answer
6. does you spouse feel the same way about fish as you do?
not at all, he sees them as money grubbing, stupid animals you can't even pet...
7. how do you make tough descicions together
this is where the 'it's easier to ask forgiveness than ask permission' comes into play, but if we actually make it together it usually turned into an argument and if it was something I felt adamently about I argued til he gave up, or if I didn't, I gave in.
8. who spends more money, why?
me, I pay the bills and do all the shopping, he just works.
9. who pays the bills, and why(math part)
I did cause he is gone 12-13 hours a day at work
10. if your spouse decided to make a large change to your family would you support him or her? why?
it would depend on the change and how it would affect our kids, but usually yes because I trust he has their best intrests at heart as well.