Maybe I'm overthinking this...

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okay so since I got my 29gal setup last week, I've been begging my
fiancee to take me to the LFS so I can get new things for it
because I want to set up my 10gal and use what I have in my 29gal
for it.

what does he do, bails on me to hang out with his friends who
see him alot more then I do.

So I'm a little angry and I kinda went off on him and said, no
I'll find someone else to take me. The reason why I wanted to do it
today was because the LFS were open later then normal.
tomorrow they close at 6pm.. all of them. He normally doesn't get
up till 3 or 4 in the afternoon, gets to my house around 5.
that leaves me ONE hour to find everything I want, not to mention
I have to get more bedding for my snakes at a pet store across town.

ugh. I hate when he does this to me!
 
Sleeps till 3 or 4? I hope he works nights cuz if not youve picked yourself a real winner. Blame him for using drugs and see if he gets pissed off lol.
 
baha, he works nights, but I work the same shift and I'm still up around 11 or 12.

yeah someone cut them, not sure, probably my ex bestfriend who decided to get mad at me for voicing my opinion on her boyfriend. lol But luckly the shop I took it to is right next door to my work and I know everybody, so they said they would do it for free meals, which can easily be done (:
 
Seriously... get rid of him and only deal with people (friends and boyfriends/girlfriends) who have your interests in mind along with their own. Why would you be with someone who is so inconsiderate?

Cut brake line? Lots more to your life story than can be commented on here... Hopefully things work out.
 
mike dunagan;4401582; said:
dump him, or drive yourself
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I totally agree with Mike ^, 100%.

You have a very unreliable friend (questionable term) who evidently doesn't care about no one but himself.
I strongly recommend the following:
1) I'd find another more reliable friend (male or female makes no difference).
2) Definitely pay up with the free meals as soon as possible to possibly expedite the repairs to your brakes.
3) walk or use public transportation on a day off so you can get to where you must go. Go get your tank supplies, leaving your house/apt. early enough in the morning, so you can be there when the shop opens and you're not pressed for time. If the shop(s) not open on one of your days off, see if you can trade a day with a co-worker. Make sure trading days off with a co-worker is approved by your boss, too.

I hope this helps with your dilema. Let us know how your new tank goes, and post pic's too if you can. Good luck.
 
thanks for the advice.
this "friend" is actually my fiancee. We've been having problems since we first broke up and got back together. Decided to give him a second chance but I'm back in the same boat, this isn't the first time he has done this to me.

He tries to switch it around and put it on me. Said I made him feel like a dick..
WELL JEEEE, maybe you shouldn't be one.
I've walked to work in 104 degree weather because he didn't feel like getting out
and taking me. Needless to say, work sent me home because I had a heat stroke.

my bestfriend treated me like crap this whole week, so me and her are no longer
friends, I've got to much in my life going wrong..
Hoping for a break somewhere soon. lol
 
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