lol--funny story. from a womans point of view, i can see you havent perfected the art of selective listening yet, young grasshopper lol.. give it time.. everyone argues, whats important is you kiss and make up and dont hold stupid grudges.. just tell her shes beautiful and shes the love of your life (and "sorry" goes a loooong way too) and shell forgive you anything.
Marriage isnt easy even when you do marry the perfect mate, its always a work in progress but well worth it!