"If you don;t already live together then before you tie the knot you should for at least 6 months."
First off, thats one of the MAIN reasons people get divorces....way to go trooper! I think that is one of the main reasons DO get divorces, cuz they move in together and stuff. I mean seriously, you look back in the 50 and 60 when divorce rates were LOW.....how mnay couples lived together? Hardly any. Now adays people are eager to have sex and say screw it to vows and stuff. One of the main reasons marriage works is cuz people vow themselves to wait till they are married....then when they do get married they share something VERY special. Makin their bond soo much stronger. Now adays everyone has been 'passed around' for lack of a better term. Sex is just something you do, its not really something special any more. So seriously, moving in together is the wrong idea...too many problems can errupt. Miles, u've got what it takes, determination, dedication, and a damn hot chick. Of course they do say that if you wanna be happy for the rest of ur life make an ugly woman ur wife, but who cares. Its true the divorce rate is pretty crappy....but thats all the more reason to show them that you've got what it takes. Go get them tiger...i have faith in you...hold on to her and show her every chance you get that you love her....make that a point in ur life. Share the love, keep the love going strong, and you can make it through everything.