More of a controlling relationship question.

[jaws7777]

Yeah most of my sick days are also catch up on chores day also. What irritates me is having sick, personal, floating holiday time, and getting written up for actually using them.

Exactly. Same employer had a policy that if you made it 5 yrs with out using a sick day they gave you a parking pass roght infront of the facility. Guy got deathly sick a month later....they revoked the pass lmaoooo IDIOT

Shoot yrs ago i had a boss that was totally cool with me draging my butt to work sick but then using those sick days as beach days.

 

[TheNewSeverum]

J jaws7777 its stupidly complicated.. makes you wonder if its even worth staying together.

 

[Woefulrelic]

The difference between 27 and 20 is small in years but the difference between 9 years as an adult and 2 is massive. If she's the kind I imagine she may have even less experience as an adult and perhaps you more. Nothing wrong with this, it's a natural phenomenon but it can give vastly different viewpoints on a scenario like this. No one here will be able to give you perfect advice as an outsider but take everything with a grain of salt and look for positivity.

 

[TheNewSeverum]

Woefulrelic Yeah, I fully understand that and it all makes sense. I just wanted outsiders to give their opinion as obviously each side's friends and family will take that side, hence the post. Interesting how over 200 views on here yet 6 people voted in the poll.

 

[Atfownz]

All I know is that this is just the start OP. It will only get worse as the days go by.


A wise man once said, you only need to know how to say two things to your wife to be HAPPY.

1. Yes hun
2. I'm sorry hun


Try something else and you will learn the hard way or the lack of for a good while.

 

[TheNewSeverum]

I shouldnt have to sit there and give up my life to make her happy. Sorry, but thats not what a relationship is

 

[krichardson]

No,you shouldn't.You are too young to be putting up with her crap and there are too many great gals out there for you to meet and help you forget about her..cut the line,drop the catch and paddle on.

 

[TheNewSeverum]

We discussed all the stuff that upset one another, hopefully it will help, if not, I'll find someone else. Hopefully someone into fish xD

 

[krichardson]

Did you mention that you feel like stepping off?

 

[Warborg]

I shouldnt have to sit there and give up my life to make her happy. Sorry, but thats not what a relationship is

Sounds like you don't want a relationship. It's a give and take thing. A girlfriend does take time out of your life. What's the point of having one if you don't want to spend time with her? Having a busy schedule doesn't help.