The Finactics don't know anything about keeping Cichlids if they believe in this myth. There is a lot more then to just mixing the fish they need to worry about. Its easy to be a parrot when you don't have enough experience in this hobby.
No, I haven't found him a lady but he does mock courtship with my female Nicaraguan cichlid. Not trying to breed anything in this tank or I'll legitmately have a problem on my hands lol. Is that your pair of Motas in your avatar? Been trying to get my hands on some for awile now.