@(4)Thanks for the thoughts, everyone. Just a few clarifications:
4) When the first ray died (and before any others really started looking bad) I naively thought that it had swallowed a barb shed off by another ray. In order to confirm this I performed a "necropsy" with a Swiss Army Knife. The findings were as follows: stingrays are full of a substance known as "guts." They are pretty gross. And that is about all I learned. It was nasty and potentially dangerous and I wouldn't advise that anyone do that.
5) The other ray still seems ok. Knock on wood.
I can just picture getting myself elbow deep in some perplexing mess like that. !GUTS!+ no anatomical knowledge. LOL.@(5) glad something worked out well.