Find a local place that sells sandblasting sands. They will have several different grades "size of grains" of sand.
My local supplier has it in baby food jars to show the different grades of sand. I paid $11.99 per 100 lb bag for natural looking large grain sand. They called it washed and graded for size. It had minimal dust.
I'll definitely look into that
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