Im trying to breed my 4" Male ZZ Flowerhorn with a 5" Female Midas and there in a 30 gallon tank together divided. Every once a week i take out the divider and see if they will breed and everything seems to be going well intill they lip lock the female has the upper hand and looks like its about to rip my males lip off and I panic so i seperate them again and my male always has torn lips Any suggestions plz help