I have nothing against you and have never flamed you only tried to give advice, I would love to see you get some more knowledge, experience and a nice tank going and then when the time is right expand your horizons, Slow down and learn not just cram fish in a tank and say we are the ones to blame for flaming you by saying I told you so.
Just in one of your last posts about getting two more bichir for your 29 I said no don't do it just stick to your ram, get it a mate and ditch all the other fish or ditch all the other fish and go with some nice schooling fish as they will not out grow the tank you have, deal with fish you can keep now not make plans that may fall through for other tanks later, wait till you have the other tank then stock it . You obviously did not take that to heart or even consider it, and that is very frustrating.
If you ask for opinions your going to get them, if 99.9% of them are not what you want to hear you seem to just do it any way and then post asking why this killed that, can I add more, or I added more and expect people to not say negative things. If I were to tell a friend I wanted to do crack and they said don't but I did it any way then called them high as a kite I would not expect a good response, same deal here, we are trying to help you but your crack is fish and you are hooked bad, and just like someone hooked on crack no matter how many times or ways we say to slow down you don't but you still look for approval for your actions.
SLOW DOWN, TAKE YOUR TIME AND KEEP YOUR FISH HAPPY, TRY NOT TO IMPULSE BUY, LOOK AT LONG TERM CARE NOT SHORT TERM, DEAL WITH WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER THE FISH FOR A HOME NOT JUST GET WHAT YOU WANT AND SAY THEY WILL BE OK OR YOU WILL FIX IT LATER.
This is the best advice I can give you, please don't read this and say I'm flaming you, I'm not, I'm only trying to put things in perspective for you so you can learn and grow in the hobby, If the biggest tank you can get is a 29 so be it, stock a 29 not a 55+ in a 29, you will get much more enjoyment out of a well maintained tank over a a constant shuffle and loss of fish and you will find that even if you just have the rams for a time or a nice tank with a school of tetras and croys that is maintained well you will get much more positive feedback here then the never ending cycle you are in now.