Need online dating advice

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i agree with seaofdreams, some really good friends and possibly that certain someone could be found online. who's to say the guy or gal you start chatting with at the bookstore, grocery store, movie theatre line up, etc doesn't also have a profile online somewhere? i know i connected with many great people when i was a member of a dating site a while ago. unfortunately i also met someone i should not have gotten involved with romantically and got screwed over royally....but that's another story, lol.

six months does seem a long time to only communicate online though. she is either being really cautious or isn't all that interested.
 
BigFishMommy;3243848; said:
i agree with seaofdreams, some really good friends and possibly that certain someone could be found online. who's to say the guy or gal you start chatting with at the bookstore, grocery store, movie theatre line up, etc doesn't also have a profile online somewhere? i know i connected with many great people when i was a member of a dating site a while ago. unfortunately i also met someone i should not have gotten involved with romantically and got screwed over royally....but that's another story, lol.

six months does seem a long time to only communicate online though. she is either being really cautious or isn't all that interested.
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I remember I put up some days that I wanted to go out with her but I never followed through. Maybe she is getting me back. But this time I was serious thou in wanting to go out since it has been a while.

Well to be safe about it, it is better to not go out with a stranger so some people might want to know the person before going out.

I remember I met this other woman online and we exchanged emails for about 4 months. I found out that her husband was in prison and he was getting out soon. And she still had ties to her brother in law. She is seperated. I am glad that we got to know each other before we went out.
 
ahm i also belonged to an internet dating site so no harm in it from my point of view.

id leave it, she cant be that great.

i know loads of ppl that have met over the net. my best mate is now happily married and expecting her 2nd child with a man she met over the net.
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hmmm don't run after her or anything. trust me, the moment a man starts to show any signs of interest towards a woman in that way, she will become uninterested. act like you don't care and she's yours. plus if she never got back to you for a while, maybe there was someone else. my view? forget her and move on to someone else. i mean...if she didnt contact you for a while and then you wrote her an email and she replied just to keep you there then why should you bother with her? hell there are better women out there anyway.
 
im sorry to put my two sense in but dont you think its a little pathetic (sorry rude choice of words but nothing else came to mind) that you have an online relationship through email? and the cold part about it is it isnt your first time? dude i think your issue is your self esteem or your juss "challenged with your looks" again i know it sounds harsh but think about it. online you dont know who you were dealin wit! it could have been a 50 year bald fat man gettin his jollies to your profile pic. or sum1 with a pretty girl workin wit him plottin to set you up, when you meet her you have a few drinks, next thing you know your in sum dark basement gagged tied naked to a chair! my point is get sum game go to a bar, club, ect. and pull 1 in person. and if thats not your scene then theres alwayz good girls at church. and lets be honest we can all use a little jesus in our lives!! sorry if i came off rude but ima blunt person!
 
Let her come to you if she don't, move on for something better. Don't throw yourself over the top at her no chasing let her pursue you. If your a nice dude and she takes advantage you then treat her ass like dirt. Woman deny it being with a A** hole bf in all reality that's what they seek. Time after time always the same card. No offense to any true/real woman out there.
 
Online dating? Better off person to person dating. Kinda lame for a online thing anyways if you look at it. Actually have met the person on the other end.
 
FISHY FINGAZ;3243960; said:
im sorry to put my two sense in but dont you think its a little pathetic (sorry rude choice of words but nothing else came to mind) that you have an online relationship through email? and the cold part about it is it isnt your first time? dude i think your issue is your self esteem or your juss "challenged with your looks" again i know it sounds harsh but think about it. online you dont know who you were dealin wit! it could have been a 50 year bald fat man gettin his jollies to your profile pic. or sum1 with a pretty girl workin wit him plottin to set you up, when you meet her you have a few drinks, next thing you know your in sum dark basement gagged tied naked to a chair! my point is get sum game go to a bar, club, ect. and pull 1 in person. and if thats not your scene then theres alwayz good girls at church. and lets be honest we can all use a little jesus in our lives!! sorry if i came off rude but ima blunt person!
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well i dont have the time to go meet ppl and when ppl see me its always with a child in tow so im unapproachable.
hence y i joined a dating site. id moved to a new place hours from where i used to live and was completely on my own. i didnt have friends let alone friends to meet a decent partner through.
so i personally dont think its pathetic. ppl do it for different reasons.
iv had men chase me coz their married and want fin, iv had a man offer money to me, and iv also met 2 blokes that were absoloutly lovely and treated me like a princess.
ur not being blunt hun ur being shallow and not looking at all aspects. and i dont mean that to be rude btw.
 
Im not going to get into a debate on whether onine dating is stupid, but as for the dilemma of the member who started this topic, i think its very possible that she is trying to find out exactly how much you like her because she wants a guy that will be like her puppet si she'll be able to make the guy act however she wants in public, etc.
Just a thought.
 
i met a girl through myspace... she was cool. for about a week. then got weird. not psychopathic weird but... well, ya kinda psychopathic weird.

but then most girls are like that. just the other day a girl threatened to hang me if i didnt let someone know about a leak on her floor...
 
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