Oh come on! It must just be so unfathomable to some of YOU that some of US were not actually 'born fish keepers'! Give us new fish keepers a break, and stop ragging on us! Being a 'know it all' and being condescending to us is totally not acceptable. The reason some us joined here.......IS TO LEARN. Not to be made to feel dumb or awkward when we are asking 'noob' questions. "If you can't say something nice"...........well, I'm sure you have seen the movie Bambi............GIVE US A BREAK, OK?