Haha, I wish that was the problem (not really though) my EBJD is more or less top dog in my 55. If the bleekeri doesn't suprise him, he's more than willing to go jaw to jaw (bleekeri then decides he'd rather just stay in his cave) and with gill flaring from my EBJD my normal Jack Dempsey will move to the other side of the tank. In my 37 my EBJD doesn't seem to get picked on either. I pray that sexual maturity of my tank doesn't make them the wusses of the tank... But no, their current problem is that they are spoiled =S