Yeah, mine is an aggressive eater too. That's why he got named Nom, NomDMD123 mines really relaxed, one of the ansorgii is losing its tail, i think the BV bitting it, or my smaller congi. But ansorgii is nice except feeding time, they will run over the smaller guys and take their food, lolz
Even with a bully lap in the tank he always got to the food.