Moloch;4596391; said:The biggest worry for me right now is the female being WAY over-dominant. She forces the male to stay in the top-back corner of the tank. I'm not sure if he's even getting food to be honestI can't move him to my other tank, I have two ready-to-breed females in that tank, its overstocked as it is & I can't afford to risk getting 1 or even 2 hostile pairs of convicts out of it:\ Hopefully he makes it through.
I've had that happen in reverse a few times, with the male beating up on the female. One trick I found was to take the agressive one out for 10+ minutes. Let the one that is getting picked on get back into the groove of parenting without the bully around. Don't need another aquarium or anything, just drop her in a gallon jar or something. Won't be there long enough to hurt anything.
The 3 times I've done it, when I put the male back in, they re-do their little mating dance and then start getting along again. Haven't lost any fry yet, though I hear this could potentially happen. If you take the female out, watch the male with the fry. If he starts attacking them, you'll have to remove him long term.
I can't move him to my other tank, I have two ready-to-breed females in that tank, its overstocked as it is & I can't afford to risk getting 1 or even 2 hostile pairs of convicts out of it:\ Hopefully he makes it through.