well look on the brighter side now you can be sure you get a female..... take my advice look for the pink scales on the belly!!!!! even if you only see one pink scale get it!!! Females start to show the pink belly at as small as 1/4 inch!!!! im tellin everyone if you want some drama, action, life in your tank get a pair....!!!! they are my favorite out of all that i have.... i have 5 fh, 2 severum, 4 JD, 7 blood parrots, 5 king Kong parrots, 1 midas, 2 salvini, 2 rainbows, 1 fire mouth, 1 green terror, 1 placo, several corys, and 3 honduran red points..... the hondurans are awesome too!!! very similar to cons but much more showy in coloration and calmer personalities..... but i also have 1 calico female con, pink con pair, 4 regular con males and 2 reg con females!!! i could use the room but cant seen to part with them... oh by the way the first pic is def a female!!! so u were right on...but look for brighter ones like the one in the pic from "Hayenchinook"....good luck !!! keep us updated....if you were local id offer you a female