I am of the opinion that all the ones in the Nimbochromis group pretty much act the same, and attain roughly the same sizes, within an inch or so.
These guys are semi-predators, almost basically what I would call the Oscar of the African world. They are big, playful and have character to them. But this also means trying to keep smaller Mbuna with this is going to prove difficult to do, unless you introduce them together and early on in life. Newer additions might go missing aka became a meal once it reaches full size.
While they will hunt and stalk in the substrate, it's as well not uncommon to see them out and wandering around in your water column either. Many if not all Haps, to some degree do this. This might cause problems trying to intermix Peacocks as well then. I have a full grown adult Venustus in a 180, and he will chase any dither fish he sees, but that is the key word, sees. I have yet to see him do the play dead act, but it's written in many forums they do exhbit that behavoir in the wild. I'd catagorize the Nimbo's, all of them as Piscovores or assterive omnivores.
The Polystigma has a rather unusual pattern which looks as if it is colored to blend in among rocks and sandy bottoms. This does support the concept of it being a predator.
Marius is very smart and knowledgable in fish keeping, especially Africans as I've seen, however I do not agree that you wouldn't be able to make use of a 125 gallon tank. It's basically the same footprint as a 180 maybe a tad less on width and height is all, but it's still going to be a 6 foot tank so I wouldn't stress out using a 125, unless you plan on housing groups of them. Solo, or a pair should be ok, but I wouldn't go much more then that.