Matthew, don't sweat it
people just need to relax, it's obvious you're new here. you can post this all you want. it's responses like these that push people away from this site, i get where they are coming from too but still, this is why there have recently been a lot of threads complaining about replies like these.
again, i get what everyone is saying but what i do is, if i see a thread that i think may annoy me, i pass it up. it's as easy as that
what's annoying too is that when someone is annoyed by something, they know it before going in the thread, and then they go in the thread anyways and instead of helping, they just flame or troll or post something that isn't helping anything or anyone