That's awesome the whole family is in on the hobby. No matter how small their involvement the fact that they take an interest is great. The only family I have that used to be in the hobby are my fathers brother, my 2 uncles. They got me into fishkeeping as a kid but have since getting divorced quit the hobby. Only one currently shows any interest in my tanks or fish. Other then that everyone thinks i'm blown outta my mind spending as much as I do on fish.
The Chocolate hits and eats everything, including raw fish and shrimp. He's not the only trouble maker but he's up there. Every pellet or morsel of food he sees he tries to grab. He's even crashed into the glass top mistaking a bubble or who knows what for food even if I'm no where near the tank. Scares the heck out of my niece when she's playing my PS4.
Lol, guess it's time for me to start praying before lights out and throwing in the bed time feeding. Currently one poly the CB Endli I said goes beast mode. I had a 14 inch Koliba but she jumped on me. That's the other thing, I don't know if it's my stock causing it but I lost a Nigerian Lap and Koliba to skittish jumps. Again my endli is calm as a cucumber but my bigger Poly's seem to get skittish and jump. I also don't know if it's the comcrete floor but even finding them immediately I've yet to save them.
As far as the amount of cichlids, I'm battling 2 Pikes(1 Zebrina and one T-1), 1 Chocolate and 2 Ingots. The pikes are by far the worst. Those gluttons not only have deep guts but huge mouths to hold food in.
Dude, I don't know how you do it. I've never had Cichla but I've seen them in action eating and they're absolute beasts when it comes to food.