I know it's their personality to be spooked easily but i thought i'd ask. My 8" silver aro is in a 125 gal with a small pleco. I was wondering if there's a way to make him less spooked. He know his owner (me) & is fine when i'm near the tank. But gets spooked when anyone else is near the tank. I'll probably get bashed for this post but any advice would be greatly appreciated.