Don't be 100% set on its gender just yet. Once it gets to 4in take it out and vent it just to make certain. Lol I thought that my female (Big Bertha) was a male for the longest time due to how big her kok is but one day I got curious and took her out to vent and found out that what I thought was a he turned out to be a she. Also she has no dorsal spot signifying that she was female.
Good thing it was a fish and not your date


