If you look at the flow chart at 20ft of head it is 3000 gph. Also you can't go to big on the output as long as the input is the same size or bigger. Every union, shut off Valve, 90 elbows add up. I don't know how high your ceilings are but from my basement to the top of tank is 12 ft. That is only 4500 gpm and that is with no extra pipe that u need, or fitting. I found pump for the same pice that will do 6600gpm at 75ft of head.
Here is a calculator for head pressure I don't know who at reflow would tell you to use a smaller diameter pipe than the discharge on the pump but I would never do that. I would just put a shut off Valve to regulat the pump just always do it on the discharge side of the pump. Bigger is better Especially at higher flows. Go to the calculators and put in a 100 gallons per minute and see the head loss different from 1 1/2 to 2 inch pvc its was a Couple of feet with my setup. I think the hammerheads are great pumps just not for high head pressure. I am going to keep mine and just use it to run a glass bead filter.